Deacon's Corner: Are laypersons allowed to give blessings?
September 18, 2022, 12:00 PM
In liturgical settings the Priest and the Deacon are normally the only ones to confer blessings. The Priest gives the blessing at the end of Mass and the Clergy presiding at other liturgies provide the blessings. The Book of Blessings has a wide range of blessings for religious articles, various events, families, meetings, vehicles, etc. For special occasion blessings such as Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, and Grandparent’s Day, the Priest should not ask the laity to extend their hands or join him in conferring the blessing. This can confuse the distinct role of the Clergy and the uniqueness of the blessing. When laypersons lead formal liturgical activities, such as the Liturgy of the Hours, they must not only avoid Clergy gestures, but also follow prescribed texts that simply ask for God’s blessing on the people, but do not imply they are bestowing such blessings. Outside of the liturgy laypeople can give certain blessings. The Book of Blessings provides the appropriate rubrics and text for a layperson to offer blessings. Following this guidance reduces confusion. This is the case when an Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion gives a blessing when a person asks for it instead of the reception of Holy Communion. Since it is awkward to refuse to give a blessing during the distribution of Holy Communion, the EMHC should simply say, “God bless you”, but make no sign of the cross or Clergy gesture. Liturgists frown on the general practice of Priests and Deacons giving blessings in the Holy Communion line, but it is widespread and difficult to eliminate. This is why we sometimes observe EMHCs giving “blessings.” Now you know!